Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Easter Jubilance

I wanted to share some of our Easter Joys.
Pictures tell the story of My 3 Daw Boys.

First, through the expressions of our little Lincoln.
Consumed lots of candy, exuberantly shared what he was thinkin.

Next comes our Griffin, his enthusiasm can't be bested
He played with every present, and with many he rested.
Lastly, our Brian, made goofy faces 'till we captured this sight.
He inspired the boys to reveal their muscles and fight!
Shirts were removed, while candy was eaten.
Muscles were flexed, yet no one was beaten.
When posing involves muscles, everything is easy.
Expressions are hilarious, and none of them cheesy.
Gap had a clearance on pink shirts for boys.
Who'd have imagined they'd be cheaper than toys?

Reverence was taken for this special day.

Family gathered and feasted away.

One sister was missing, moved not long ago.

Her absence was felt, more than she'll know.

We took time to remember God's special Son.

For His tremendous sacrifice for all, and for one.

This was the best Easter I have preserved thus far.

It captured my tiny treasures, each a brilliant star.

I am grateful to He who protected their light.

For His sacred gift, my heart's true delight.

Friday, April 17, 2009

Sarah Sunshine

I have a sister just 14 months younger. We always shared a room. At night we would stay up late talking and she would tickle my feet as we talked. How lucky am I? If she was overly tired she might snore and I would gently nudge her with those feet and say, "Stop Snoring."

Sarah has a heart of gold. We have always said she is all heart. One of her nick names is Sarah Sunshine, because her happiness is always contagious. She has been known to show up on my door step with a gift of soda and candy. No one could ask for a better sister. She was greatly missed when she moved to Seattle for 2 years. Once she even paid for half my ticket, so I could come visit her in Washington. The beauty of homes nestled amongst pine trees is unparalleled. Even a rare snowfall graced the trees with its glory. I will always treasure that special trip.


There were times as a child I knew what to say to incite anger from her. Intentionally provoking a sibling was always referred to as "pushing their buttons" in our home. Yes, sadly I knew how to push her buttons. I was known to do it from time to time. I think I just loved the attention. Gone are those days of youthful banter. No longer do we share a room of slumber. What does remain are the fond memories of my cherished friend. She knows me best and loves me any way. As children I repeatedly pushed her to the depths of frustration, hoping to bring out those angry words, "I hate you," which signaled victory. I was sure I must be the champion of antagonism. The frailties of youth understanding, it was she who championed patience and long suffering!

Now I invest my energies to see her smile! How I love to see her laugh and I enjoy that special twinkle in her eye. Love to see all she accomplishes with such creative energy. She was born with all the creative genius. I was the lemon on that tree. She is exceptional at sharing her time and talents. She is the master of selflessness.

Today is her 30th Birthday, I wish her all the joy and happiness she so richly deserves! Many of us strive to be more Christlike, her very nature places her further along that path than most. As I travel down that road, I realize she is miles ahead and I must run faster. With age comes wisdom. Sarah has championed the essential virtues of love, kindness, service, honesty, respect, patience, and charity. I am blessed through her example and honored by her friendship! I am so grateful God has placed her love in my life!

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Easy to Please

Lincoln's Birthday was a full day of fun.
Bold
I believe basketball is intricately woven through the Daw DNA.
What better way to start off the birthday boy than lunch and games at Peter Piper Pizza?
Lincoln and Brian had a great time shooting hoops.
I look forward to planning an elaborate birthday party in the future. In case you didn't catch the subliminal message in the previous statement, thus far the procrastinator within has prevented me from all out birthday extravaganzas.
Luckily, my small children do not know the difference between party extraordinare and cupcakes at the park with family! Griffin was quite impressed by the rings lovingly placed on the cupcakes by Fry's Bakery.

Lincoln had hair raising fun whooshing down the slide and consuming cupcakes. Papa was his best friend for giving him a 3rd cupcake! Thanks Papa!
Blue frosting never tasted so good, nor made such a mess!
My favorite thing about 2 year olds? One present is more than enough. If it weren't for brothers and cousins, the night may never have ended!



Monday, March 16, 2009

Happy 2nd Birthday Lincoln!

Has another year really gone by?

It is surprising how much you have changed in one year.

Just one short year ago, crawling was the preferred mode of transportation.

It seems like only yesterday, standing akwardly was the newest excitement.
And hair was hard to come by.

Climbing aboard play toys was a real challenge,
And enjoying a ride in the stroller was still possible.

Life's little frustrations triggered vivid facial expressions
And occasional tears.


Two teeth were through,
And many others had much work to do.

Standing became an easy affair,
Yet walking seemed a distant care.

As we end this delighful year of one
We must reflect on all you've done.

Running, Climbing, and Teething galore.
We couldn't ask for anything more.

Such a sweet spirit, rarely a cry.
To this year we hate to say goodbye.

Wagon rides were the trend.
Buzz Ne ne, Walle, and Nemo, each a favored friend.

Anything tasty was bound to be savored.
Gum and suckers his favorite, no matter how flavored.

We love little Lincoln, he is such a joy!
We couldn't ask for more from our third little boy!

Happy Birthday Lincoln!

Monday, March 9, 2009

Are You in the Driver's Seat?

No matter what I do this week, the seven days will come and go. At the end of the seven days what will have changed? What will I have accomplished? So many things seem out of my control. Certain messes will be made. Clothes will be dirtied. Floors must be vacuumed. Dishes must be washed. Sick people must be cared for at the hospital. Exercising must be done if weight is to be lost and triathlon is to be trained for.

It is very easy to think, who is in the driver's seat of my life? Time passes so quickly. Children get older. Day comes to an end whether I carefully counted calories or chugged Dr. Pepper's two at a time! Yes, with so many responsibilities and essential tasks of the day, it seems reasonable to think, I am not the driver of my car. It infuriates me when I think I have no control over my life's work.


Oh wait. That's right. I have been down this road before. I do know the answer to this reoccurring question. Who is driving? It is me. It is always me! Even if I am behind the wheel talking on my cell phone, while absentmindedly driving the wrong direction on a one way street. I may not even realize that I am traveling in the wrong direction! Even if I do not consciously recognize the decisions I am making, they are still being made.


Sometimes my inner voice tells me to cut corners. I fell .5 miles into our 5.5 mile run and sprained my ankle pretty good, the inner voice said "Oh you're injured, you should just quit." I knew that I needed to dig deep and find the fortitude to carry on. The ankle would swell regardless, why sacrifice the joy of accomplishment too? Dixie even ran an additional 2 miles along side me, subtly increasing my pace. We can do way more than we give ourselves credit.


I loved that time period from about age 15 to 22. Every opportunity was available. No mountain was too high. Every day offered multiple opportunities for fun. Any career lay just ahead, the road map was available, and could be followed with the proper discipline and attention to the signs.


It is strange to have a huge portion of life entirely self centered, focused only on what I want, then my priorities shifted and I found myself traveling the roads of family responsibilities, church service, and work. While traveling these essential roads of life we occasionally forget to pace ourselves or refuel! When the destination is far from sight, we want to accelerate and disregard the speed limits. Who wants to check the air in the tires? Stopping for gas will delay our arrival.


It is invigorating to unlock that door to the world I loved and embraced, that world of youth, filled with achievement and obvious personal successes. Everyone knows that distant travels require proper car maintenance and regular refueling. Failure to provide physical and spiritual fuel will result in delay and may ultimately prevent us from reaching our desired destination. As time has passed a few of the physical and mental manifestations of years of fortitude, and physical diligence have dimmed. Some of that zest for goal setting and personal achievements have been dwarfed by my mountains of familial responsibility. Can't I have both worlds?

It is well within us to fuse the true joys of the current world of family and spiritual fulfillment with the old world full of self fulfillment and personal accomplishment. Self Actualization is a driving life force that will ultimately lead to maximizing one's abilities and determine the path of one's life. As we properly care for all aspects of our development we will maximize our talents and achieve ultimate happiness.

There is no shortcut to true happiness. There is no end to the amount of work required to reach that desired paradise. Why not enjoy the air conditioning and radio along the way? When taking a long trip it only makes sense to pack snacks and rest when necessary. Play games. Sing Songs. Take pictures. We get so obsessed with reaching the destination that we forget to enjoy the journey. If you get there first, but all that is left is a one armed, one legged, five haired, shell of a person, will it be worth it? No! Let's take the time to enjoy the journey, meet our needs, and develop ourselves. As we do, there will be far more we can give, more joy to share, and everyone will arrive happily at the desired destination. Time to stop kicking and screaming, shouting from behind the wheel, "who's driving this thing?" I am setting goals, and taking time for myself.

Take a look in your rear view mirror. Are you the driver or are you the person laying in the road that you just drove over with your SUV? It is time to make sure we are doing what is necessary to make ourselves truly happy. What is keeping you from true happiness? Do you have the courage to capture it?

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Life is a Highway...

The boys all went to Las Vegas this weekend.
Brian was having his unbirthday. When your birthday comes but once every 4 years, it rarely ever feels like your birthday. Time with his favorite people was sure to infuse birthday bliss! We are not the biggest of cake fans, so what better solution than Papa John's a glow with birthday candles?!!Uncle Justin thought it was a clever idea!

This picture cracked me up. Griffin has definitely embraced his inner race car driver!! These boys love going to Vegas to see the Daw's. One thing is for certain, the Daw's know how to show the love! The kids never seem to lack for something to do.
What would a Vegas trip be without the Bellagio Water Show? Griffin was a fan.
One day we were walking around the Daw's neighborhood and saw this cute purple car sitting by the trash can. I said to Brenda, "Do you think they are throwing that away?" As we approached the house the owner stepped out and it was someone she went to church with. When she asked about it he said, "It doesn't work most of the time, but your welcome to have it." Sold! We took it back to Tutu and Papa's and it has worked during every visit. It may be a purple car that says, "Princess," but that doesn't keep My 3 Daw's from having fun.
Who doesn't love licking frosting from beaters?

Yes everyone had a wonderful time visiting the Daw's in Las Vegas. Sports were Played. Members were assembled to create the ultimate "Rock Band." Cinnamon Rolls were ingested. Sports Cars were driven. Yes, I would say everyone enjoyed this vacation, except for maybe Ginny Dog! She probably thinks it is possible to experience too much of a good thing!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Swaddled with Love

Recently two friends very dear to me have had babies born with little hearts. They were born with a condition known as Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. Essentially these infants are born without use of the left ventricle, the chamber that performs the essential functions of receiving oxygenated blood from the lungs and then pumping it out to the body.


My friend Liz lost her little baby Jake after a few precious weeks and a very valiant fight. St. Joseph's Hospital has an incredible unit designed to help support these special infants and their families. One of the neat things that they do is give soft, minky blankets to the babies. With all of the hospital equipment. and at times because of the tenuous condition of the infants their families aren't able to hold their precious baby. It provides comfort to baby and family to have this soft, special, nurturing blanket. At times, this special soft blanket is the major comfort and nurturing item amidst the entourage of wires. Baby Jake's mom is raising funds to make more of these blankets in hopes of sharing the loving comfort she experienced during those tender moments of her son's life.
My best friend from nursing school delivered Ethan February 18 and he also has this heart condition. He has just had his first surgery of 3 to make the needed conversions of his heart.
He is still in St. Joseph's as he continues to improve from his first surgery and travels this essential surgical path that will enable him to go home with his loving family. The picture above is little Ethan. I would appreciate it if you could remember baby Ethan in your prayers.
Doesn't he just have the cutest little foot you have ever seen?
I know these are very difficult financial times, but Jake's mother made a plea for even $5 to help make these special blankets. She asked if we could add this request to our blogs to get the word out for their project. Liz, her family, and church friends will help her make the blankets. Let's all see what we can do to help. Their deadline is March 8th.

edennison78@yahoo.com with questions
You can address the donations to:

Bishop Anderson
Summerfield Ward (purpose: Jakey's Blankies)
2791 E Los Alamos Ct
Gilbert, AZ 85295

Make checks payable to: Summerfield Ward
This does meet tax deductable criteria for charitable donations.

Thank You!